Three Style Resolutions for You in 2013

by jlaine on December 13, 2012

Hello Stylish Ones!

Can you believe it…Christmas is just around the corner and then one week later: New Year’s Eve!? This time of year the minutes seem to evaporate before our eyes. Enjoy, take it all in, but when you come up for air on January 1, here are the style resolutions that I propose for you.

Resolution 1. Let this be the year you live in your best style.
Not the style of your sister, or that of your favorite celebrity. Let this be the year you experiment, and give yourself the gift of discovering your best style. This means growing outside your comfort zone a bit, and that doesn’t always feel so good….at first. But when you get past that little speed bump, it feels a whole lotta glorious! If you don’t know where to start, that’s where I come in. It’s my mission to help you through this exciting, exploratory process. 


Photo: Elle.com, Paris Fashion Week

Resolution 2. In 2013, commit to organizing your closet.
Life becomes so easy and effortless when you can saunter into your closet and choose the clothes that you love, as opposed to screaming hysterically for the four-thousandth time that you don’t have anything to wear. What’s the difference? In part, it’s filling your closet with items that you love (Resolution 1), and then the other half is getting everything where you can see it. I like to organize by style and color, but I have some other tricks for you too!


Photo: BaerHomeDesign.com

Resolution 3. Great style evolves and moves throughout your life.
Have you ever heard the saying “How you do one thing is how you do everything”? The way you wear your style translates to your health, your  home,  your relationships, your life. It’s how you do things. Make it a point to be excellent and stylish in all you do. Notice I didn’t say ‘perfect’.  That’s because part of life is messy, it’s discovering, it’s indulging, and so very human that it can never be perfect. Because then it wouldn’t be something else that is tres important: fun!


Photo: DecorPad

Wishing you all a safe and lovely holiday season,

And here’s to a brilliant 2013!

To Your Style,
Jill Laine

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Hello Stylish Ones!

Ghoulish decorations: check
Candy “for the trick or treaters”: check
Crazy and creative costumes: check
 
What’s not to love about Halloween?
 
Which reminds me, if you’re not dressing in your best style, for your unique fabulousness and individuality, then it’s kinda like wearing a costume.
 
Yet at times, we all struggle with identifying our style and various existentialist issues. Such as: Who am I? What am I doing with my life? Do I really believe in wearing polka dots? Should I have painted my toenails a different color?
 
At those moments, it helps to find a style icon to lean on for confidence and inspiration. These brave and brilliant souls have lived well before our time but their style is still legendary. 

Jackie Kennedy Onassis: Classic Style

Please. We could stop right here, there doesn’t need to be anyone else on the list! Big sunnies. Wide legged trousers. Structured bags. Sheath dresses. Equestrian fashion. Pearls. Givenchy, Chanel, and Dior. Jackie ruled the 1960′s and 70′s style scene, bar none. Her style was, and is, classic perfection. 

Symptoms: confused by too many trends, designer logo overload, style malaise
Prescription: go back to JKO’s basics

Other Classic Style Icons include: Audrey Hepburn, Grace Kelly, Michelle Obama, Princess Diana, Kate Middleton

Cleopatra: Bold Style

You may think that a style icon from 2000 years ago isn’t relevant today. Au contraire! Girl knew that a great statement necklace and kohl eyeliner are the best accessories for seducing Marc Antony and being a kick-A Pharaoh. Legend has it that Cleopatra died by inflicting an asp (that’s snake) bite on her breast, when Caesar’s forces were closing in. I don’t recommend this personally, however it shows Cleopatra’s boldness and desire to live, and die, on her own terms. 
 
Symptoms: feeling that your style lacks punch or pizzazz, playing it safe with your fashion, style ennui
Prescription: LBD, statement necklace (or other over-the-top accessory), and smoky eyes 
 
Other bold style icons include: Lady Gaga, Daphne Guinness, Anna dello Russo, Marchesa Luisa Casati

Jane Birkin: Effortless Style

Here’s the deal, if Hermes decides to name it’s most famous bag after you, then you’re officially a style icon. Back in the 60′s, Jane was moving and grooving to the scene in England and France. She threw on a ‘this’, added a ‘that’, and everyone took note that her style was incredibly fabulous, not forced. Today Jane is a singer/songwriter, film director, and political activist, and rakish style matriarch.
 
Symptoms: Style that is too perfect, too precious, and too forced. 
Prescription: This may be the toughest Icon to pull off, it’s a careful balance of done/undone. Experiment with leaving something tousled, distressed or not perfect. Add something vintage, a signature piece, and let the real you shine through!

Other Effortless Style Icons Include: Kate Moss, Sienna Miller, Mary Kate & Ashley Olsen, and 35 million 
French women
 
Here’s to the costume, and fun, of fashion, year ’round,
and always,
To Your Style!
JL

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Hello Stylish Ones!

We’ve all heard about green living, recycling, how to be environmentally conscious, and what steps we can take to better love our planet.

Today I want to show you how you can be ‘green’ via your style, by taking average items in your closet and repurposing them in unique ways. Not only do these tips save you money and save your clothes from the landfill, they’re also going to take your style to the next, exponentially fabulous, level!

By now you’ve probably heard me preach about clearing closet chaos, so that you’re wardrobe reflects your highest and best style. I still stand by these principles. And yet, in every closet, we will have some basic, needed items that are less-than exciting, and only moderating interesting. These are the pieces that can be given a big punch to bring them to superstar style status.

What could be better than having this option: basic comfort or style glamazon? 
 
Exhibit A: The Basic Dress
Every closet needs one of these, a simple neutral dress in cotton or silk. It’s fine, basic, but no one is going to throw a parade for this piece. Until now! Just add a short skirt that until now was reserved for apres 9pm, maybe one that’s on the cusp of being too short to wear on it’s own. A skirt in lace, tulle, or with sequins. Et voila! You have a whole new dress. To keep this look fresh, make sure the dress is made of a thin fabric, and have the hem of the dress peek out from below the skirt. Another option of course is to mix patterns, like Diane Kruger did here in this photo:
 
Photo: fashion.telegraph.co.uk
 
Exhibit 2: An oversized sweater, borrowed from his closet
Here’s another great basic for F/W, a classic mans sweater. Cozy and comfy for him, to be sure, but sexy for you? Absolutement! Pair his sweater with your favorite short skirt or shorts, and a pair of tights if desired. If the sweater is still too big, add a belt to reign in in. It’s your favorite new look, courtesy of your mister!
Captain Obvious wants me to report that if you are a size 0 and your man is a size 44 xxxl, this is not your look. Keep in in proportion, with a sweater only several sizes too big for you.
 

Photo: Trendmill.com

Exhibit 3: Basic pearl necklaces, chain necklaces, and ribbon

On their own, one strand of pearls is uninspired.  But wrap those pearls together with other pearls, some basic gold chains and tie them with some yummy grosgrain ribbon and you have your new favorite statement belt! Coco Chanel would be proud. Or at the very least, not appalled. 

If you haven’t already, check out my friends at Green Living Magazine, they have the best tips on living a beautiful, and green, life.

Here’s to keeping it green yet ever fabulous,
and always,
To Your Style!

JL

 

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Fall Fashion 2012: Ode to Wine

by jlaine on October 12, 2012

Hello Stylish Ones! 
 

In Neruda’s poem ‘Ode to Wine’, he writes:

Day-colored wine,
night-colored wine,
wine with purple feet
or wine with topaz blood,
wine, starry child of earth,
wine, smooth as a golden sword,
soft as lascivious velvet…

Drink it,
and remember in every
drop of gold,
in every topaz glass,
in every purple ladle,
that autumn labored
to fill the vessel with wine. 

Sounds positively delicious, but also so spot on for this fall season, when the wine to be consumed in the stores is as abundant as your happy hour glass. From sumptuous leather to velvet, boots and beyond, rejoice with me in the grapes of fab. Cheers!

Wine Pairings:

As a fashion trend, wine is back for the second year in a row, but has it ever really left? I can’t imagine a world without wine, it’s a classic for every autumn season! If you invested in some wine infused pieces last fall, the great news is those will be spot on for Fall 2012 as well.

This year many designers are referring to wine as ‘oxblood’. I prefer Burgundy, Bordeaux, or Merlot, they sound more civilized, less barbarian.

It’s great to know about wine, but to become a true cognoscenti you must find the perfect pairing for your particular shade. Black is too safe a guess, that’s what everyone picks. You, Stylish One, get extra points for creating a different flavor combination. 

Burgundy: This gorgeous, deeply red shade looks so elegant when worn with camel. To take your palette to the next level, add in delicate notes of rich blue or green. 

And with a leopard print? Best in Class!
Photo: OneCharmingLife.com 

Merlot: A marriage of red and plum, merlot finishes with a pleasing berry undertone. Stunning mixed with grey or navy blue, look for this to pop with nuances of mustard, or even tangerine. 


Photo: www.surabhimittal.com

Port: Unabashedly plum in color, this varietal knows how to make an style statement with rich brown or winter white. Deliciously ripe and at full stride when enjoyed with red, gold or aqua.
Here’s to loving wine in all it’s incarnations,
and always,
To Your Style!
JL

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Hello Stylish Ones!

Once again the magic of fall is upon us. Any day now we’ll be seeing pumpkins in stores, watching the leaves change color, and planning our Halloween fetes. So what are you waiting for? Is your fall wardrobe set on ‘go’? It’s time to start thinking about packing up your summer garments in lieu of a richer, more savory fare. Last week I talked about boots, this week I’m giving you my picks for the best fall 2012 fashion trends that you’ll want to add to your style arsenal!

Hands down, fall is always my favorite season for fashion. Perhaps it’s the nostalgia of going back to school that forever runs through my veins, but something about this season sings to my style soul like no other. It’s been my pleasure to scour the runways and bring you my favorite trends, drum roll s’il vous plait!

Color Cue: Colorblocking is still on trend, as are vibrant hues and traditional fall classics. Enter stage left: rich reds, paprika, orange, electric blue, navy, burgundy and wine. Did someone say bordeaux or burgundy? One of each for me. To find out more about the color trends this fall, check out my video for SheKnows.com here.

Photo: DKNY runway show
 

Peter Pan Collars: I love the way these collars bring a touch of vintage, lady-like flair to any outfit, be it a classic sheath dress or basic tee. You’ll see these from super luxe to simple chic, and if you’re a crafty type then take a spin with your own DIY version. 

Photo: Marni for H&M

Baroque Opulence: It’s Russian Zsar meets Fortuny, get ready to be blown away by the baroque fabrics and rich, lavish touches of opulence this fall. Velvet, fur, gold threading and tassels, I say yes to all! Best when worn in small doses, these pieces will add instant glamour to any outfit.

Photo: Dolce & Gabbana runway show

Leather: Although typically worn by those tough and subversive types, this year leather goes mainstream. Expect to see it in unexpected ways: from sweetheart collars to pleated dainty skirts, this leather takes your gran’s style and shakes it up a bit. If you like your leather more rock-star chic then get yourself a pair of leather leggings or shorts.

 Photo: Iamnotasupermodel.com


Equine Prints: Horse lovers, rejoice! This fall you’ll find equine inspired sweaters, prints, and accessories to fan your flame of My Little Pony desire. Better luck next time, cat people.

Uncle Karl and Choupette

Did I hit all the trends for you here? Nooo, that’s what upcoming newsletters are for!
Here’s to a fabulous fall, and always,
To Your Style!

JL

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Hello Stylish Ones!

If I only had one item to anticipate, lust after, and swoon over this fall (who am I kidding? every fall), that piece de resistance will always be: Boots. Not pumpkins, not the cool air, not colorful falling leaves. Nay. Those things are great, mind you, but they they can never compare to my first love. Why boots? Boots herald the return of fall, the truest and richest fashion season. You all realize we’re just playin’ in summer, right? Summer fashions are like sorbet served at a 7 course dinner, it’s there to clear your palette before the beef bourguignon, or in my case, tofurkey, arrives.

Each September when I bring back my boots which have been stowed away for summer, it’s like seeing my old friends. I feel such excitement, reliving our excursions from years past and knowing there will be new and exciting style ventures to come! That’s one of the best things about boots, they do get better with age. Choose a great pair and you’ll wear them a lifetime.

Fall 2012 is overflowing with delicious boot options, and you, Stylish One, don’t want to miss out! It wasn’t easy, but I narrowed this list down to just 5 great choices. You’re welcome.

Classics Redefined:  This year provides a plethora of gorgeous, classic choices in riding boots, motorcycle styles, ankle boots, and everything in between. If you don’t have at least one pair yet, then you know what you’re shopping for this weekend. If you want your choice to have staying power for years to come then forgo too many embellishments or trends, keep it clean and simple. 

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Love Moschino Riding Boots w/Hearts, $420, Bloomingdales.com

Stud Alert: Simply put, studs are jewelry for your feet. Gold studs, silver studs, sharp and pointy, round and curvy, big, little, tiny…this year there’s a stud for everyone. 

 Sam Edelman Adele Spike-Strap Moto Boot
Sam Edelman Adele Moto Boots, $200, UrbanOutfitters.com

Buckle Up: Buckles and boots go together like leopard and pearls or chocolate and a rich pinot noir. Utterly delicious. 

Parton Metal Trim Boots, $240, Topshop.com

Kitty Kat: Animal prints are still hanging around, why? They’re a classic! Buy now, wear forever, and be insanely fabulous.

Sam Edelman 'Kit' Boot
Sam Edelman Kit Boot, $175, Nordstrom.com

Moroccan Nomad: What do you get when you mix sumptuous leather with old Moroccan rugs? A fabulous pair of boots, that’s what!

Freebird by Steven 'Caballero' Over the Knee Boot
Freebird by Steven Caballaro Boot, $495, Nordstrom.com

Don’t forget to show some love to your boots from seasons past, are they looking a little worn? This is the perfect time to take them to a cobbler to have them re-soled, buffed and shined.

Here’s to Boot Camp being back in session, and always,
To Your Style!

JL

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Tips to Having Million Dollar Style on a Dime!

by jlaine on August 17, 2012

Hello Stylish Ones! 

If you’re like me, the B-word is something you’ve got to deal with everyday. That’s the big B, as in Budget. 

Rather than sobbing in despair or wantonly going into debt, I am here to take a stand and declare that being utterly and totally fabulous can co-exist with being fiscally responsible. In fact, I truly believe that having a B gives you and me the opportunity to be more selective and creative in our style choices. 
It’s part of our style evolution, the survival of the fashion fittest!

So, how does a Stylish One go about putting together an amazing, modern look when her B is looking mighty lean?
 
First, the prequel to this tale: she’s well stocked on classic, basic items. Her wardrobe foundation isn’t built solely on trends, so it goes effortlessly from year to year, season to season. If you feel like you ‘never have anything to wear’, this is what you need to concentrate on first and foremost. 

See, even Uncle Karl likes to pinch pennies!
 
Back to our story, and my tips!
 
1. Go through some fashion magazines or window shop to get inspired, see what’s new for the season that resonates with you and your best style. I have a mental list of the pieces that really speak to me, and what I’m looking to add to my wardrobe for the season.
 
2. Take note of what gaps you have in your wardrobe, again this goes back to having a strong foundation of basics. To really stay on track, make a list.

3. Now that you have a purpose defined, get in there and get shopping!

My all time favorite place to score major deals is a great consignment shop. Used clothes not your mise-en-scene? Good news, that’s more for me!

Although you can’t just order up whatever size or style you want at a consignment store, the right store will still have lots to choose from. And the discounts are deep, typically 40%, 50% or more off the original prices.

Here you’re sure to find most, or all, of the foundational pieces that you need (tip 2), as well as the really unique, inspirational pieces that you desire (tip 1).

What you’ll find missing at a consignment store is the brand new trends that are just hitting the shelves at the retail stores for full price. But, if you think outside the box and allow yourself to be creative, you’ll find some items that have elements of those right-now trends. At this point in fashion’s history, nothing has been done only once. There’s always something similar lurking in the wings, waiting for you to rediscover it and make it shine again!

Here’s to being being creative, fabulous, smart and frugal,
and always,

To Your Style!
JL

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Hello Stylish Ones!

Fringe. During the 1970′s fringe was earthy, bohemian, and worn by girls in California named Crystal that would read your crystals. In the 21st century, big designers went to town on fringe and now there is nary a closet in sight without a smidge, a smattering, of fringe. Sans crystals.

And though we love it so, what were to happen should our fringe go to an Ivy League college, graduate magna cum laude, start wearing plaid and Louboutin loafers and dating boys named Chad Wellington III?

It would become tassels! Huge, massive, and well deserved for Fall 2012, tassels kick fringe to the curb and go all Upper East Side.

What are tassels, really? Just a few pieces of fringe wrapped together and belted. But somehow the look is so much more grown up, so much more NYC Style.

Prepare your style arsenal now, Stylish Ones! This fall, tassels are the rockstar of fashion, especially in the accessories arena. If you have a tassel-phobia you should seriously consider staying home for at least a year. Or join the dark side by buying one of these luscious items:

Sky High Loafers
These aren’t your old school, boring loafers, this fall tassels adorn shoes and boots of all heel heights, colors, and styles. If you love tassels and boots, avec moi, then this season is your official style nirvana.

Giambattista Valli Pre-Fall 2012
Giambattista Valli Tassel Sandal

Bags
What better way to show your tassel adoration than with a bag, your go-to everyday item? And nothing says ‘I am yummy’ better than a big tassel pull on the zipper.


Photo: Streetfsn.com
 
Jewelry
Phu-leeze. Tassels were made for jewelry, and visa versa. Shop your favorite vintage stores for cool tassel finds from eras past, then pile on the old and new bijoux together!

 
There will be plenty of other tasseliciousness to go around this season, with ornamentation on clothing as well. 
 
I have always had a penchant for tassels, so I take this trend seriously, it’s my mission to preach far and wide. So of course it’s not good enough to let other designers tell me where to put my tassels, mais non!  That means I’m stalking cool ethnic and vintage tassels on Ebay, Etsy, or Silk Road Tribal, and adding them to the items already in my closet. Care to join in my tassel madness?

Here’s to anticipating fall’s ornamentation, and always,
To Your Style!
JL
 

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Though I love shopping for bargains at sales, one thing that can be difficult to maneuver is the time factor. Who has time these days to schedule that 8am opening on a Wednesday, when all the good stuff is still available? One answer to that dilemma is the Outnet.com, a drool worthy site of deep discounts and slash and burn prices with merchandise from the site’s main store: Net-a-Porter.com. Now if you haven’t ever visited Net-a-Porter, then my fashion friend, you just haven’t lived. It’s a beautiful, carefully culled collection from the worlds best designers, bursting with inspiration, glam, and gorgeousness. But I digress. Items that are discounted significantly from the Net-a-Porter site make their way on to the Outnet, where you can search for new arrivals anytime. No need to set your alarm. But move quickly, as their most coveted items don’t last.

Case in point, check out this Kenneth Jay Lane Art Deco-esque carved jade necklace. It’s $80, down from $160.

Bead and carved jade necklace by Kenneth Jay Lane

 

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Be Kind. To You.

by jlaine on August 7, 2012

Watching the Olympics and the insane hardbodies that come with that level of athleticism, I’ve been inspired to take my own level of fitness up several notches. Which is why, after tackling a more rigorous workout yesterday, today it hurts to walk, move, or even sit! As I hobble around I’m reminded that whenever we go to a new level of health, be it physical or emotional, many times there is pain involved in pushing through to the next zone. And though I’m not enjoying the pain per se, there is a part of me that enjoys knowing that this too shall pass, and soon I’ll see my efforts rewarded.

Be Healthy: Take a moment to consider your amazing physical body. It’s miraculous how our heart beats, our blood flows, and our organs detoxify, automatically. Many times being kind comes in the form of chocolate, or a cookie (who, me?), when to our bodies being kind is about nourishment. What can you do to be kind to your body today? Maybe like me you want to challenge your level of fitness, or perhaps it’s about eating more fresh fruits and vegetables, and less processed foods. Considering this body is the only one we get on this planet, being healthy is a kindness and an investment that will last you the rest of your life!

 

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